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A'lethia X'zenia Diana Wolfsong

February 17, 1954 — November 3, 2023


A’lethia X’zenia Diana Wolfsong, 69, of Topeka, passed away on Friday, November 3, 2023, at her home.

She was born February 17, 1954, in Santa Monica, California, to Walther Grothe and Ethel (Constable) Grothe.

Alethia graduated from Orange Glen High School and then earned an associate degree.

She enjoyed history, collecting antiques, and making jewelry.

She married Walter Ben Koester in San Marcos, California, in 2000.  He survives of the home.

Other survivors include her children, Laura Marie Pettitt of Topeka, Lance Jason Pettitt of Topeka, Kristopher Pettitt of California, and Carrie-Anne Hall of London, England; and 4 beloved grandchildren; Preston, Allara, Julian and Jackson.

A private memorial service will be held at a later date.

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Arrangements entrusted to Brennan-Mathena Funeral Home, 800 SW 6th Ave., Topeka, KS 66603.


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